Prostitueetje Pesten

‘Wat doen die mevrouwen daar, pap?’ vroeg ik mijn vader minstens twaalf jaar geleden. Ik zag mijn vader nadenken over het antwoord dat hij aan die wijsneus moest geven en uiteindelijk vertelde hij mij dat mannen daar naar toe gaan om een vrouw op te halen. Nou was mama gewoon mama, maar wist ik wel dat zij een vrouw is, dus ik stelde de – in mijn ogen – logische vervolgvraag: ‘Dus jij hebt mama daar opgehaald?’ Tot zover mijn kennismaking met het oudste beroep ter wereld: prostituee.

Wat mijn ouders mij ook altijd hebben bijgebracht, is dat pesten niet mag! Pesten maakt onzeker, pesten maakt bang, pesten maakt heel veel kapot. Iedereen is het erover eens dat we daar een einde aan moeten proberen te maken. Echter, tot mijn stomme verbazing draagt het huidige politieke klimaat omtrent prostitutiebeleid een nare walm van prostitueetje pesten met zich mee! En dat is nog niet alles, de politici trachten het ook nog zo te verpakken dat het door hen gevoerde of voorgestelde beleid beter is voor de vrouwen met Utrecht als jongste voorbeeld. In mijn ogen is het tegendeel het geval.

Het Zandpad, de zone voor prostitutie in Utrecht, is schoongeveegd. Wegra, de laatste exploitant, is zijn vergunning kwijt op grond van verdenking van het faciliteren van mensenhandel. Terecht! Daar zal ik niks over zeggen.
Burgemeester Wolfsen laat echter de prostituees, hoewel het buiten zomers warm is, in de kou staan. Het is een utopie te denken dat het indammen of zelfs strafbaar stellen van prostitutie de mensenhandel doet afnemen. Zweden is daar bij uitstek het voorbeeld van. Wolfsen schetst dan ook een schijnwerkelijkheid als hij zegt dat het huidige schoonvegen het welzijn van de vrouwen verhoogt. Deze vrouwen verliezen in een klap hun legale inkomstenbron en staan met de handen in het haar. En dan staat de burgemeester doodleuk te beweren dat hij de vrouwen op deze manier helpt. Als de vrouwen zelf al aangeven dat zij juist nu vrezen voor mensenhandel en juist blij waren met de kant waar het beleid nu naar toe ging, in wat voor werkelijkheid leeft Wolfsen dan in vredesnaam?

Mensenhandel terugdringen is een nobel streven! Maar ga dat dan ook doen en pak niet de vrouwen die als prostituee hun geld verdienen hun baan af. Hoewel veel mensen meteen klaar zullen staan met hun morele tegenwerpingen, zijn er daadwerkelijk vrouwen die vrijwillig kiezen voor een werkend leven in de seksbrache! Dat er mensen zijn die daar moeite mee hebben en niet in geloven, is het probleem van die mensen en niet van de vrouwen zelf.
We moeten eens ophouden met het demoniseren van deze beroepsgroep en nu eindelijk eens gaan doen wat echt goed is voor deze vrouwen! Om te beginnen eens goed en echt naar ze luisteren. Wat willen ze zelf? Wat verwachten ze van de lokale overheid? Geef ze de kans om daadwerkelijk echt over hun eigen leven te beslissen in plaats van vanuit de ivoren toren te beslissen wat wel en niet goed voor ze is. Volgens mij weten deze vrouwen dat zelf namelijk dondersgoed. Leven en laten leven! Als vrouwen ervoor kiezen om van hun hobby hun beroep te maken, is dat alleen maar fijn en valt dat toe te juichen! Wie is de politiek dan om daar ook maar enig moreel oordeel over te vellen. Wat de gemeente moet doen, is deze vrouwen open en eerlijk tegemoet treden! Een goed sociaal vangnet, een duidelijk protocol om de kans op mensenhandel zo klein mogelijk te maken en vooral bescherming. Waarom geen permanent bemand politiebureau vlak in de buurt van de prostitutiezone dat effectief ingrijpen mogelijk maakt als daar de noodzaak toe is? Waarom nemen wij als gemeente de exploitatie van de ramen niet op ons, zodat vrouwen een betrouwbare verhuurder tegenover zich hebben? Als het welzijn van vrouwen in de prostitutie echt op 1 staat, zorg je ervoor dat ze dit beroep veilig uit kunnen oefenen in plaats van ze te diskwalificeren en ze te laten verdwijnen in de illegaliteit door prostitutie in te dammen.

Als ik de ouwe hoeren (ja, die twee zusjes van televisie) moet geloven, is een prostituee iemand met een maatschappelijke functie. Iemand waar met name mannen even stoom af kunnen blazen en kunnen ontsnappen aan de vluchtige maatschappij. Het zou mijn keuze niet zijn, maar als het voor die mannen helpt … Nogmaals, wie is de politiek dan om daar een morele berisping tegenover te stellen? Misschien zijn prostituees helemaal niet zo erg als we denken.

Mensenhandel en prostitutie zijn twee verschillende vraagstukken en dienen als zodanig te worden behandeld! Misschien wordt Nederland dan dat tolerante land waar we zo graag te koop mee lopen!

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